The 80-20 rule. The rule says that you get about 80% of what you need from your mate. Sometimes we meet someone who has that other 20% that we’re not getting and the 20 looks real good, but if you trade it for the 80, then you’ll really see how good you had it.
I hate “what if” questions, people always ask What if…all the time. They want to know how I would handle the situation if something happen to us. and I don’t want to put myself through all this drama in my head, if it didn’t happen yet, and we don’t know it will happen. Some of the What if questions i get asked a lot is; 1) What if…he doesn’t get station in San Diego, how would u handle that? My answer is Ill handle that if the times comes but nothing is going to break us. 2) What if…he comes home and looks at you differently? My answer is, Ill handle that if the time comes, but Him and I have something stronger than just looks 3) What if…he finds someone else while he is gone? or has a little to much fun? My answer is, Ill handle that if the times come, but we wouldn’t do anything to disrespect one another like that. 3) what if he gets deployed? My answer is, Ill handle that if the time comes, but We handle miles between us before we will make is work.
No matter what happens, no matter what life throws at us, we will always stand next to each other. and i cant worry about the “what if” i have to worry about right now and that’s all i can do.
Last night, I saw the old him, he talked to me like I was just other person he knew. Does he understand that, that cant’t happen. If he starts pulling that shit again, it’s going to be the end of us. We worked to hard and long to just let him go back to his old ways. We have everything working against us and we need to stay true to each other. This will never work if we both don’t work on ourselves and how we treat each other. He doesn’t know whats it like over here, just going through everyday life feeling like the world is spinning so fast, I can’t see straight, but also time is just standing still and each day feels like a it will never end. I think about him everyday, everything reminds me of him and it just a remember of how far away he is from me. I don’t know what it’s like for him over there and I’m going to try and guess, but what I do know is that he thinks about me, the only thing is, I don’t know to what degree he is thinking about me. I know he misses, but I wonder how much. I know he wishes he was home, but I don’t if he wants to come home now or could he stay longer away from me and everyone here? I want to know the answers to theses questions. I need to know…
This won’t work if we don’t work on it…
Stop worrying about your messy hair, your eyeliner and your curvy body. One day you’ll find a guy that won’t care about it, they will love you for you are and not the way to look. If you are with someone that bugs out or worries the way you look..RUN! don’t stick around and put yourself through that. They have a problem and they are taking it out on you. You need to get away and let them deal with whatever it is they need to deal with.
Smile and enjoy life!
Having someone you care about so much is never around when you need them, when you need to hear them to say everything is going to be okay or have hold you and not say a word, all the sweet-nothings that make you fall for them more and more are just gone…so why do i stay around and wait for him? It’s as simple as this, I love him, He is someone I always want in my life. He is the only one that cam make me feel like everything is going to be okay even if he is 1,000 miles away from me. I can feel his love for me even I can’t feel him next to me. My heart is all in with him, I don’t want anyone else in this world, so if i have to share him with the world so be it. I know with 100% if my heart that he feels the same way about me. He know what to do to make me smile even if i can’t hear him or see him. This kind of relationship isn’t for every girl. It’s a lot of tears, a lot of night of sleeping in his t-shirts and wishing his was laying with you. Wondering what he is doing and how his day is going. Not being able to know anything about nothing his doing for weeks or months. Sitting around looking at your phone withing it would ring and when that phone call doesn’t come, you stuck trying to find the strength to go on with the rest of you day or even your week. You wait weeks, months, or years for a single kiss and hug. Many days and night worried that he is okay and staying strong. This kind of love is selfless love. Worrying about him before you worry about yourself. Making sure he is okay before you even think about yourself. Everything just revalues around him and you don’t mind at all because he is everything to you. All the little drama and little fights just seem like a wasted of the time you have with him. There is no point to any of that. Like i said this kind of relationship isn’t for everyone. It take a really strong person to stick it out for the long run and I plan on being that person. I love him so much and nothing is going to stop us. <3
#marine #marinegirlfriend <3
I Miss My Marine SO Much and this song helps me. I hope its helps someone else too <3 #Marine
I have the feeling that maybe one day you’ll look at me and forget why you liked to looked my eye in the first place. I want to make sure you’ll stay mine forever. Never tell me goodbye, never walk away from me, never forget why you loved being around me. and I won’t do that to you.
I don’t know what you’re doing I don’t know where you are But I look up at that great big sky And I hope you’re wishin’ on that same bright star I wonder, I pray And I sleep alone I cry alone And it’s so hard livin’ here on my own So please, come home soon I know that we’re together Even though we’re far apart And I’ll wear our lucky penny ‘round my neck Pressed to my heart I wonder, I pray I still imagine your touch It’s beautiful missing something that much But sometimes love needs a fighting chance So I’ll wait my turn until it’s our turn to dance
